tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post7345268615391964869..comments2023-10-26T04:48:15.750-04:00Comments on Ryan's Life: An Open HeartRyanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103056885949384521noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-12763300399772920152022-10-08T04:39:59.534-04:002022-10-08T04:39:59.534-04:00後宮後宮後宮後宮後宮後宮後宮後宮後宮後宮<a href="http://a961.6699live.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a962.6699club.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a963.6699liao.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a964.6699luo.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a965.girl6699.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a966.cute6699.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a967.6699love.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a968.6699ifei.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a969.6699ing.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><a href="http://a970.show6699.com" rel="nofollow">後宮</a><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-44494881535032389682014-12-22T10:51:33.956-05:002014-12-22T10:51:33.956-05:00I agree with you, Ryan. I knew at 3 years old I li...I agree with you, Ryan. I knew at 3 years old I liked guys and it wasn't a stage or anything like that. ryan fieldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13361694356025572544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-35090285317397392152014-12-21T14:02:53.483-05:002014-12-21T14:02:53.483-05:00What a welcome to the family Christmas party, but ...What a welcome to the family Christmas party, but pretty cool that - whatever their original reactions and thoughts - they were open to talking to you on the subject. Lots of times, people's reactions come from not actually knowing (or realizing that they know) someone who's gay.<br /><br />Fingers crossed for that kid and his parents. Greghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14337889899066280559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-1445516116863985492014-12-20T18:57:55.812-05:002014-12-20T18:57:55.812-05:00I guess I agree with jamie... it'll work itsel...I guess I agree with jamie... it'll work itself out. Ryan, at the least, your family gatherings must be really kool. jimmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13114255434616727257noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-79227611203820243762014-12-20T16:54:36.948-05:002014-12-20T16:54:36.948-05:00I think you did a good job of handling this, espec...I think you did a good job of handling this, especially out of the blue! My favorite resource for parents is PFLAG. There are chapters all over the place. <br /><br />For sure, children are identifying as LGBT younger and younger. I work with 11-13yo kids, and while some of them are a little "confused" themselves, it's more because of a lack of words to put with how they know they are. <br /><br />The whole sex thing will work itself out. But knowing how to react when he wants to bring boyfriends home for sleepovers, etc. is necessary. That's why PLAG can be a great resource!<br /><br />Good job, Ryan!<br /><br />Peace <3<br />JayAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09978841487723754585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-74641931456975343412014-12-20T11:26:03.850-05:002014-12-20T11:26:03.850-05:00Ryan, I commend you for your mature and honest ans...Ryan, I commend you for your mature and honest answers to that woman's questions. Most straights only idea of gay people is what they see on the news and in parades. As we know, what the news picks up, is not the normal gay culture but the few extremes. Seeing normal gay couples always shocks them.. you arent wearing dresses nor are you trying to attack them or their kids. The more 'normal' gay couples and families they see the more we are accepted. There are always a few who will reject us and their children. I would hope that eventually they can realize that their child is that..their child and should be loved and cared for as such. Thanks again Ryan for being willing to help. Have a great holiday! Teddytoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10071253530216181227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-36322091343996807542014-12-20T07:09:06.260-05:002014-12-20T07:09:06.260-05:00If the 10 year old saw a girl that he liked, every...If the 10 year old saw a girl that he liked, everyone would say "Oh how sweet, he has a girlfriend". No one would say, "it is just a phase he is going through", or that he "didn't know what he wanted and was just confused". Funny how so many people have a preconceived idea how the world should run, and if anything upsets that, then people begin to freak out.<br />I just hope the mother and father both will support this young man. I am glad you are there for others to talk to and get your insight.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07740964812288726831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-57971837151004383102014-12-19T22:08:51.416-05:002014-12-19T22:08:51.416-05:00Ryan, I agree with both you and Mary. One problem ...Ryan, I agree with both you and Mary. One problem is there are so many people out there that believe being LGBT is a choice. Most of this is a result of their religious background. However, the mother is to be commended and lets hope she keeps giving her son the love he deserves.Jay Rossnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-8754821521379416772014-12-19T17:54:18.129-05:002014-12-19T17:54:18.129-05:00I agree with you Ryan. I so wish there was some ki...I agree with you Ryan. I so wish there was some kind of support program around here, but There's not anything within a 50 mile radius or more. <br />But, everyone who knows me, knows how I feel about lgbt rights, either from my car stickers, my tshirts or my tattoos. The tattoos is what brought me one of my very best friends and also brought someone else into my life that I care a lot about. <br />I want people to see these things and know that if they need a friend, someone just to talk to or, if they need more, that I'm here, no questions asked. <br />If I had the resources, I would start a support group. The problem is, people are all hung ho about starting something, but when it's time to do it, they all conveniently disappear. And, I can't do it on my own. So, all I can do in the meantime is let kids and adults too, know that I'm here and sometimes, that's all that's needed. To know they are not alone and know that it's okay. mary greshamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17435881201661831946noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16273390.post-5288899248812621262014-12-19T17:53:08.565-05:002014-12-19T17:53:08.565-05:00I agree with you Ryan. I so wish there was some ki...I agree with you Ryan. I so wish there was some kind of support program around here, but There's not anything within a 50 mile radius or more. <br />But, everyone who knows me, knows how I feel about lgbt rights, either from my car stickers, my tshirts or my tattoos. The tattoos is what brought me one of my very best friends and also brought someone else into my life that I care a lot about. <br />I want people to see these things and know that if they need a friend, someone just to talk to or, if they need more, that I'm here, no questions asked. <br />If I had the resources, I would start a support group. The problem is, people are all hung ho about starting something, but when it's time to do it, they all conveniently disappear. And, I can't do it on my own. So, all I can do in the meantime is let kids and adults too, know that I'm here and sometimes, that's all that's needed. To know they are not alone and know that it's okay. mary greshamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17435881201661831946noreply@blogger.com