I want 2 talk about a hot topic if I may. I want 2 talk about porn! Ok now I got your attention don't scroll down just 2 see my nudie pics. Haha j/k but really I haven't told everything about Corey coz I felt it wasn't my place 2 and I thought Corey would post more on here but he has decided 2 more on with his life and put the past behind him. No he didn't move from my parents house he is still there and he slept in my bed with me and we cuddle. No Mikey is not jealous he knows where my heart is. What I mean about Corey is he told me it was ok 2 talk about this but he don't want 2 it's in his past and there he want's 2 keep it.
Now the reason I am bringing this up coz it might help another young person I know. Seems this kid is already online selling his body for people 2 watch. What I mean is he is jacking off and gosh only knows what else. The problem is he thinks he can make a living at this. Now there is many things wrong with this first off once you show yourself naked online it will follow you until you die it never goes away trust me I speak of this coz I know. I did something stupid when I was 16 and it comes back now and again and bites me in the ass when I think it's about over.
Another point and I am not talking bad about this person at all it's just a point. But most of you remember Ethan/Gerald the brat boy school well his point for the website was 2 make him more know so he could get modeling jobs well that's what he said well he did get one with a underwear company until his lies caught up with him. What I am saying even if you have a perfect body and a pretty face don't mean you will make it. This kid I know is thinking about starting a website with cams all around the house but he don't understand any money he makes he has 2 pay taxes on.
Brings me back 2 Corey he did something in his past he is not happy about but something were done so he won't go hungry and I can totally understand this. I myself would do some crazy shit for food. But one thing Corey did was he was in one of those dorm houses with live feed hoping that someone seen him that would turn him into some star or something that's what he said they paid him 200.00 a week he had free room and board but he had 2 pay taxes on that money. Guess what happen after he got a year older and they found someone a year younger that's right he was ass out.
All I am sayin is the porn business I don't think its all it's crack up 2 be. Think about do you know any porn stars that are rich? I know a few personally and they are ass broke. Hell look at Ben Bradley Ethan's ex he selling underwear now you think if there was money in the porn business he still wouldn't be doing that? So I say 2 that 19 year kid that is stroking your cock on xtube stop it and go get a real job. Maybe someday your true love will find you and then you have to tell him you were a net slut and he then dumps you is it worth it? Just stop and get yourself a real job the little money your making now will dry up then what u gonna do?
Later from Atlanta!
Now the reason I am bringing this up coz it might help another young person I know. Seems this kid is already online selling his body for people 2 watch. What I mean is he is jacking off and gosh only knows what else. The problem is he thinks he can make a living at this. Now there is many things wrong with this first off once you show yourself naked online it will follow you until you die it never goes away trust me I speak of this coz I know. I did something stupid when I was 16 and it comes back now and again and bites me in the ass when I think it's about over.
Another point and I am not talking bad about this person at all it's just a point. But most of you remember Ethan/Gerald the brat boy school well his point for the website was 2 make him more know so he could get modeling jobs well that's what he said well he did get one with a underwear company until his lies caught up with him. What I am saying even if you have a perfect body and a pretty face don't mean you will make it. This kid I know is thinking about starting a website with cams all around the house but he don't understand any money he makes he has 2 pay taxes on.
Brings me back 2 Corey he did something in his past he is not happy about but something were done so he won't go hungry and I can totally understand this. I myself would do some crazy shit for food. But one thing Corey did was he was in one of those dorm houses with live feed hoping that someone seen him that would turn him into some star or something that's what he said they paid him 200.00 a week he had free room and board but he had 2 pay taxes on that money. Guess what happen after he got a year older and they found someone a year younger that's right he was ass out.
All I am sayin is the porn business I don't think its all it's crack up 2 be. Think about do you know any porn stars that are rich? I know a few personally and they are ass broke. Hell look at Ben Bradley Ethan's ex he selling underwear now you think if there was money in the porn business he still wouldn't be doing that? So I say 2 that 19 year kid that is stroking your cock on xtube stop it and go get a real job. Maybe someday your true love will find you and then you have to tell him you were a net slut and he then dumps you is it worth it? Just stop and get yourself a real job the little money your making now will dry up then what u gonna do?
Later from Atlanta!
Although I am not one to complain about pretty bodies in the porno realm, there is the seamy underside where the purveyors take advantage of the purveyed. Amateur porn on xtube is one thing that could be written off as youthful indiscretion, but pro porn is a hard life. Just look at what Brent Corrigan has gone through. One day even he will lose the flower of youth and the star on his ass will sag. One does not want to wake up at 30 or 40 and find he can';t hold his shit in because he has been fucked by too many big dicks and still not have anything to show for it. All too often our young people are forced by circumstance into that life or prostitution or both. Then there are the ones that are talked into these things by the sexual predators out there. Not good in either instance. Think long and hard before taking the plunge, it could cost you your life or make the one you have just so much shit. There is no retirement plan and there is always another pretty face younger than you.
I like what you wrote and I totally agree with you. Porn actors mostly get paid per shoot (no pun intended) and don't see any royalties. There is no long term financial incentive. It is quick money at first and then it dries up as you age. Not everyone can be Brent Everett. But like everyone else, he is going to age and the jobs will disappear.
I have nothing against porn, but it is not a career.
Many people will do what they need to do to survive. I understand that can happen. When easy money shows up, it becomes easier to do things you don't want to. People do what they need to do to survive. Everyone should learn from their past. If mistakes were made, people need to be given a second chance. They should not be judged because we do not know/understand the situation that put them there in the first place.
If your friend is going to continue on Xtube, he should pay taxes and start and IRA for when he turns 25 and no one is going to pay him any longer.
Remember Al Capone. He went to jail for tax evasion.
One of my best friends worked and did porn for Cobra Video. I saw first hand what the porn industry can do to a person’s life. At first he did it because it was good money, but within a year he seriously regretted it. Everyone found out that he did it and people started to treat him differently and talk behind his back. He eventually quit and if you already don’t know Cobra Video is no more because the owner was murdered in January of 2007. The whole porn industry is full of so many bad people and you never know what can happen. It’s also something that will follow you for the rest of your life and even today my friend has a hard time getting people to take him seriously when they find out that he once did porn and I am always having to stand up for him. We all make mistakes in life, but my advice to anyone who is considering doing porn to really think about it. Today it might not seem like a big deal, but one day I can guarantee you will come to regret it.
I don't know what to say. I just
wish I could take all these kids
under my wing and take care of them
till I felt they were old enough to
do it themselves.
I agree with what you say, I am not against porn or anyone doing something they like as long as it's legal or even illegal as long as it doesn't HURT them or someone else but Corey better use his head and listen to your very wise advice! I wish him the best
Ryan, that's a great post and GREAT advice!
I'm sure that at first it seems extremely glamorous and a way to make a lot of money quickly, but yeah....not really what you want to tell your buddies at your high school reunion.
Corey and others like him should think about family. Not jus the one that disowned him, but the one he will someday make. "Daddy, what do you do for a living?"
But I understand the lure of $'s especially when you're broke and homeless.
Ryan, what your family has done is to give Corey the chance to sidestep that trap. That's the point Corey needs to understand.
This is his big break in life. Take advantage of the help and shelter you have given him.
I feel just like Laurie. Come here, let me help you get your life on a better trajectory, teach you better life skills.
This is an interesting post, and an interesting topic. Here's what strikes me:
I have learned that many gay men (probably straight guys, too, but I'm more familiar now with gays) are very interested in porn. A LOT of gay men, and rather a lot of porn. But it is a double standard, because as you say there are many people who have a low opinion of people who work in the porn industry. And it is a bad working environment. However, there is a huge market for it, so the people who produce porn will keep doing it because it makes them lots of money. There is a huge market for it because guys keep buying it. That just encourages more people like your friend to want to sell their bodies. When they do they hurt their chances for future work and relationships, and put themselves at greater risk for STDs. It is a vicious cycle.
And the real solution to this problem is for gay men to stop watching/buying porn. Like that’s gonna happen.