Some Good News

I had just came back into Tyler's room from getting some fresh air. The doctors decided this morning that it was time for him to wake up so they stop giving him the meds that were making him sleep. They said we could start trying to talk with him telling him to wake up. We tired all morning but he wasn't waking up. When I came back into his room after taking a break I took his hand and said Tyler you better wake the hell up or I'm going back to Florida! He squeezed my hand I just about fainted I look up at him and he was looking at me. He's Awake!!!! This is great news I know it's a small step but it's a step. He can't talk has tube's in his mouth but he is awake. I didn't want to leave him today but we did sit up a schedule so we all could get a break and get some rest. I know Mom sit this up mainly for me she knew I wouldn't leave.

I so didn't want to leave this afternoon but she made me. I told Ty I would be back very soon and he squeezed my hand so I think he understands. I made sure he knew I was only going to rest and not going home to Florida. Kadin is on his way here he's bringing my dogs to me. They don't eat well when I'm not around. Kadin can only stay a couple days they won't let him off work. I know it's a small step with Ty but it's a step. He has a long road ahead of him but in time he will be as good as new. I want ya'll to know I have all your emails that you sent Ty and I am going to read them to him when I go back. I know he will enjoy them and will be happy that ya'll care so much for him. From me personally thank ya'll that sent me emails that left comments and posted that pic on your website & blogs it shows me that there are good people in the world and I can call them friends.

Shawn & Danny I got your emails and yes I have spots open for advertising. I'm sorry I can't get back to you right now. I will try to next week right now all my focus is on my family right now.
30 Responses
  1. Anonymous Says:

    Thank you :)

    I have been praying everyday and

    LUBS YOU!!!!!!


  2. eric Says:

    I've been dropping by your site about 10 times a day waiting for news... I am so relieved!

    You don't know me. Doesn't matter. My friends and family are all praying for your brother, and for you and your parents, as well.

  3. hb9 Says:

    this is a step in the right direction! I'll keep the positive thoughts for Ty and your family going. Make sure you get your rest too-

  4. Dzyan Says:

    Thank goodness he´s alright, I´ve not been able to let a day pass without thinking about him and sending him my best wishes. So happy for him and all of you, his family, it hurts me and I´m only his acquaintance, hope you´re all doing alright, receive all my support and love. Hope Ty gets better soon. Good to know he´s conscious now and a strong relief.


  5. duffmanrules Says:

    Ryan - this is great news, and I'm so happy everyone's prayers are being answered. I hope Ty makes a quick and full recovery. Take care, of both Ty and yourself.


  6. Mr. Urs Says:

    Thank you Ryan for being there for your brother. Ty has got a great family and friends. I'm certain that with the help and love of all of you he has a good chances for full recovery.

  7. Just Says:

    Ryan I am so happy. Now take care of yourself damn it .. It is such wonderful news. Still pulling for him. know he got a long long road home. Hell Yeah .........Ty awake... Glad Kadin going to be around you for a little while. I so know you need him.... just take care of yourself , and of course Ty .... Still Keeping the light on ...Ty come home come home... Love Lee

  8. torchy! Says:

    this brought tears to my eyes. i'm so happy he's come round.

    hang in there Ryan, and keep willing him on.


  9. Bret Says:

    I am glad things are starting to take a turn in the right direction. I know he will have a long road ahead of him but he has a great support system.

    Thanks for the news!!

  10. Aaron Says:

    that's *great* news, Ryan!!! :D OMG!

    I have tears of joy! :) Thanks Ryan!

  11. It was very moving to read your post Ryan, I am happy and relieved and thanks for giving us the news. Take care of yourself please. It’s good to know there are so many people who pray sincerely for your brother, for him and for you my prayers and warmest wishes.

  12. jimm Says:

    Im so glad things are looking better. What an emotional week this has been.

    One world, one family.

  13. ryan field Says:

    Glad everything is getting better, Ryan. I went through the breathing tube and ventilator thing with someone in my family a few years back, and I know how frustrated they get when they can't talk. Maybe the hospital can give you a board he can write on. If he can't write, at least an alphabet chart where he can point to numbers and letters to spell out basic words so he can communicate with you. The hard part is they want to talk and can't. But don't push the poor boy.

    Give him a hug for me. Here's one for you. And I hope your mother is getting some rest. The shock alone can wipe a person out.

  14. ryan field Says:

    PS: When I went through this with my family member, someone I know used to light this candle from Our Lady of Guadeloupe every night. When things got better, she gave me the candle and now I keep it near my fireplace in the kitchen all the time. So I'll light a candle tonight for Ty.

  15. Anonymous Says:

    Thanks for the update. I'm glad he's making progress.

  16. Ron Says:

    I'm so glad that the doctors have given the go ahead to take Tyler off sedation, and that he seems to be coming around pretty well so far.

    Ugh, that endotrachael tube -- i remember having that down my throat when I was in ICU, it wasn't comfortable. kept hand-signalling the nurses asking when someone will take it out

    I'm sure the doctors are doing everything they can for Tyler -- he's a young guy, and I'm sure he'll make it through strong :) and Ryan you should get some rest yourself toO!

    Stay strong

  17. JerreB Says:

    I'm so glad to hear that Ty is doing better. I haven't been following your blogs for long, but I've been sending good thoughts and my prayers your direction.

    It's important to have a schedule like your mom set up. The family members need to take care of themselves as well - it does no good if someone else ends up sick and in the hospital alongside Ty.

  18. Anonymous Says:

    Thank you very much for keeping me posted on how he's doing and make sure he knows how much we love him. <3

    Thank you so so much for posting this. After everything else that has happened this week, we could use good news!

  19. Anonymous Says:

    What can I say that hasn't already been said - to say I'm overjoyed would be an understatment - Ryan thanks so much for the updates - it was so touching when you wrote about the hand squeezing.I pray he will go ahead in leaps and bounds.

  20. Octavius Says:

    Sorry i'm late..., this is indeed very happy news. Please keep us posted. And when you can..., give him a hug..., for me.


  21. Matt Says:


    I'm so glad that Tyler is waking up...

    Today was the first time I saw your posts about something happening to him...

    You are where you need to be, by his side and he needs you more than any of your blog buddies, texting friends, etc. and I'm sure they all understand the lack of communication..

    I'll be thinking about you and your family, and hope he continues to get better, so we can get you back to FL... at least its finally warming up again so it should be nice and toasty when you get back, so you can have some naked adventures...


  22. Mickle in NZ Says:

    Thanks to you Tyler is getting new friends all the time - as is your dear self.

    I send care and love and healing with hope over to you each and both,

    Mickle in NZ with my Zebbycat, xxxx and much purrrrumbling

  23. elise Says:

    Oh, Ryan----what a wonderful huge step towards Ty's recovery! If I could do a cartwheel, I would!

    I'm so glad Kadin and the dogs are coming up--that will SO help your spirits!

    Hugs and love and continued prayers for all of you.....

  24. Thanks for sharing the good news. It's beautiful to see an entire community coming together like this. You and he will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

  25. Alan Says:

    Thank you for the update ryan. It positive news and a small step forward now make sure you get your rest.

  26. Anonymous Says:

    What's with all the need for secrecy regarding how someone was injured and his condition?

  27. Anonymous Says:

    Anonymous said...
    What's with all the need for secrecy regarding how someone was injured and his condition?

    The need is Ryan and his family(father)don't want Tyler's condition or accident discussed in to much detail for the moment.

    Now Anonymous heres the part where you comment back and say "If thats the case then it never should have been mentioned in the first place blah blah blah whatever."

    Anonymous commenters always piss me off trying to start shit from behind a computer screen. Sign your name the next time or move the fuck on.

    Mike(same Mike who made the original post about the accident)

  28. Anonymous Says:

    Definitely a step in the right direction, keep focusing on the positives.

    Take care

  29. Hope Says:


    Hey sorry I havent gotten back to your blog in a little while.

    Damn home work and school has kept me over loaded. >.<

    I'm sooooo glad to hear he's awake. I've nevr expericenced one of those moments you cry happy tears. Lol. Soo that was interesting.

    My heart is soooo happy and over joyed for you. I know its a small step like you said but...its seems big to me..and im sure you as well. ^^

    You've been such a good brother. I'm sure when he can talk he'll tell you how much he loves you. I hope some one in my family would do the same for me.

    And I cant wait till you read stuff to him, Im sure he'll love that. =]

    Give him a hug for me. And tell him to get better. Or else. Lol. Jk. but really i miss him.

    Take it easy hun. Get sleep. and try not to stress. ^^


    P.s could you tell me how this happened...? its okay if you cant...but Im confused on how he ended up in the hospital? Idk..maybe i missed a post. But if you could tell me i would really love that.

  30. Dean Grey Says:


    Isn't it amazing how a squeeze of a hand can change everything?

    I hope your brother's health continues to improve.